Monday, December 14, 2009

In Rememberance


I am known to wear my emotions on my sleeves for everyone to see, but I try to keep them out of my posts on the Internet, typically. But in this case, I feel compelled to post a little bit of how I feel.



Last Tuesday I received a phone call from Brandon telling me that his cousin and close friend, Skylar had died the night before in what I can only describe as a tragic accident. I'm not going to describe the range of emotions I experienced between then and now because they are too sacred, but just know that I have a lot of emotions tied up into this loss.



What I do want to briefly share is my ever strengthened testimony of the Eternal Family. While I watched Skylar's wife and children over the last few days, I have had it conformed to me that families can and do stay together forever. Death does not break that seal. I know this to be true.

And as I look at the picture on the cover of the program for Skylar's beautiful services, I am constantly reminded that he is a husband, father, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, friend, co-worker, etc. So many things that I take for granted. If I have learned anything from this weekend, it is to be kind to those around me. Respect and love them. Don't take any moment for granted.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Could it be Nesting?

Some may call it nesting, and looking at me, you'd probably say it's true, but I call it a solution to the anxiety of not getting everything done. Why does it feel like nothing will ever be done and ready? Maybe the day I feel that way, I'll have this baby.

So... here is my list of things I would like to have done before Baby Smithson comes to play:

  1. Move all the office furniture into the new office
  2. Move Melanie's current dresser into the baby's room
  3. Move Brandon's old dresser into Melanie's room
  4. Move all Melanie's clothing into her "new" dresser (we are playing musical dressers at our house)
  5. Get out and wash all Baby Smithson's clothing and put it into her "new" dresser
  6. Find the all the baby "stuff" and wash
  7. Wash the liner of the baby car seat/carrier
  8. It would be nice to have the baby's room painted before she came.
  9. We need to get all the storage stuff out of the closet in her room so that I can put baby stuff in it. (right now there are boxes from school, etc. in there)

Okay... I'm stressed just thinking about it. Plus there is typical, everyday life stuff too.

Am I nesting? or just stressing?

Friday, November 27, 2009

Goldfield Ghost Town

Last weekend was Brandon and my 6th Anniversary! So we decided to spend Saturday with just the three (and a half) of us. We started the day by hitting a our favorite breakfast joint (okay... it's the only breakfast joint we ever hit) The Cozy Corner Cafe. Then, we went on a mini adventure at the Goldfield Ghost Town.
The Goldfield Ghost Town is just a little north of our house (I don't know how far, I was in the passenger seat. Please tell me I'm not the only one that doesn't pay attention while in the passenger seat). It consists of a train that circles the place (a big hit for Melanie), some old cars, tractors, and mining cars. I believe it is an abandoned mining site. And... like most Ghost Towns, there is a bunch of shops. (okay, NOT typical of a Ghost Town, and actually pretty humorous)
Here is Melanie driving her first car (because it's probably all that mommy and daddy will be able to afford by time she is 16).


I think the old cars are neat... what do you think?
If the car doesn't work out for Melanie, we always have a tractor as a back up plan. :o)


My attempt at being creative and artistic...



Down below there is a stable with horses. Melanie and daddy were checking them out.

Below Melanie is driving an old abandoned mining train.

And... proof that mommy was on this trip too:

Melanie LOVED the train. We didn't ride it because they charged an obscene about of money, and I don't think it was ever going to move. (I'm standing in front of the train 15 minutes AFTER the "departing time"... doesn't look departed to me). We did see it return to the station, which was extremely exciting to Melanie. I am happy about that.

To finish the day, stayed home, ate a wonderful dinner, watched some movies and just enjoyed each other's company. It was fun!

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Canning: What to do with 25 Pounds of Tomatoes

Spaghetti Sauce! And LOTS of it! Brandon bought a 25 pound box of Roman Tomatoes for me last weekend, and last night we made and canned spaghetti sauce. It wasn't too difficult, and for 18 bucks, we now have 12 pints of the yummy sauce.
Here are the tomatoes, peeled and juiced.
The following picture is of the tomatoes being boiled down.

Added spices:

And canned!
We are one step closer to that 3 month supply. I have to say, Brandon and I make a pretty good team.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Grady's Carnival Birthday Party

Yesterday we went to a birthday party for Melanie's Cousin, Grady. He turned 2 last week... and we are so grateful because it gave us a chance to have a lot of fun! Grady's mom (my sister in law, Amilee) picked such a fun theme for his party. It was one big Carnival, complete with hot dogs, funnel cake, games, and prizes.

Here is Melanie at the bean bag toss. I'm pretty proud of her. She got it in the yellow tin all by herself :o). (Though it did take her a while to realize that she was suppose to get them IN the tins and not just throw the bean bags. Silly girl!)

Here is Brandon... bobbing for Apples.

And Melanie bobbing for apples. And would you guess that she actually got one, but mom was too slow on the camera... the second before I snapped the picture, she let go to say "Cheese". Figures!

And finally, the balloon dart throw. This one was the scariest for me, but she did really well. She got two balloons!

There was also a "Knock em Down", where you knock the cups down with the ball. Melanie did the best at that one, she rocked! But... Mom didn't get a picture. I had to hold her while she throw the ball because she was too short!
Thank you Grady for having a birthday and inviting us! We had a LOT of fun!


Monday, November 2, 2009

Kiddisms

Melanie makes me laugh... And this morning she was extra silly. Here are two of the conversations we had this morning that I couldn't help but share:

Me: "Melanie, what color will your baby sister's hair be, red or yellow"
Melanie: "Yellow"
Me : "What color will her eyes be, Blue or Green"
Melanie: "Green"
Me: "What should we name your baby sister"
Melanie: "Nemo".


Melanie (Singing) "Little Fish... Little Fish... swimming in the water".
Me: "What do fish swim in?"
(Blank stare)
Me: "Do they swim in Milk?"
Melanie: (giggle) "NOOOOOOO... Juice!"
Me: "Fish swim in Juice?"
Melanie: (giggle) "NOOOOOOO... Water Mommy" (more giggles)

And yesterday...

I was doing dishes and she was literally running circles around me trying to get me to put Goofy Movie in for her. I finally told her to ask her daddy. Meanwhile, Brandon had gone to our room to jump into the shower (in preparation for church).

Melanie hears the water start and bolts it down the hallway yelling "Daddy... NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!".

Next thing I know, a disheveled Brandon and a happy Melanie come walking into the living room to put Goofy Movie in. I don't think I have laughed that hard in a long time.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Happy Halloween

Trick or Treat...


Melanie had a blast Trick or Treating tonight. It took her a few houses to get up the courage to say "Trick or Treat"... but once she understood that people were going to give her candy for saying it... I couldn't get her to stop saying "trick or treat". She was walking up to the houses saying it over and over again. She is hilarious! We did a few houses in our neighborhood (mainly people we know), then we headed to the church to crash a friend's trunk or treat. When we got back to our house, Grandpa and Grandma were there... Melanie was definitely spoiled!
Of course... Mom is goofy enough to join in on the action.



Happy Halloween Everyone!